What is a relationship?
A relationship simply means that two people are in love with each other and share everything together. It's a great feeling to be involved. You would be happy, whatever you do, you are always happy. You just can't wait to get home to see your love, want to speak to your love and want to spend time with your love. You would talk about short term plans with your love, future and perhaps marriage. When you have already talked about these, usually you can see this person is who you really want to spend with the rest of your life. Though, it may not always happen of course.
Jealousy and arguments. These two play the biggest part in a relationship, but it is normal. Why jealous? This is due to your love flirts with another person. Your love may not have already realised straight away because for him/her, the another person is only his/her friend. By this time, you would get pissed off and moody. May be you would talk about it with your love, may be you won't. It is the best to sort this out as quick as possible. If you don't, your love eventually will realise why you are being moody. Sometimes your love may get pissed off because you did not mention straight away. This is normal. However, he/she needs to understand your feelings. Sometimes you don't want to talk about it is because you don't want her to get upset, you don't want to get into an argument and so on. Basically, you care about her.
In a relationship, it needs to have arguments. Arguments can sometimes keep a relationship stronger, but sometimes it gets worse and ruins it. Arguments can be things like not spending enough time for each other, money issues and of course jealous etc. Arguments do put people off, may be you start loving him/her less, but deep inside, you still care about your love, love him/her as much and want to be with him/her. It's just you don't know yet and confused. Do not make your decision so quick, you need to calm yourself down and don't get more angry, because if you do, you will just break up with your love and will regret the rest of your life. Ask for space if you need, just don't take things so quickly. A mature relationship is, to sort things out together, understand each other and work things out together. If it only takes you one second, one day or two days to make your decision, and then break up, your next relationship will just be the same.
It's all for now. Obviously I cannot write so much details because it will take time ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋIf you want to ask anything, please feel free ^^
Jealousy and arguments. These two play the biggest part in a relationship, but it is normal. Why jealous? This is due to your love flirts with another person. Your love may not have already realised straight away because for him/her, the another person is only his/her friend. By this time, you would get pissed off and moody. May be you would talk about it with your love, may be you won't. It is the best to sort this out as quick as possible. If you don't, your love eventually will realise why you are being moody. Sometimes your love may get pissed off because you did not mention straight away. This is normal. However, he/she needs to understand your feelings. Sometimes you don't want to talk about it is because you don't want her to get upset, you don't want to get into an argument and so on. Basically, you care about her.
In a relationship, it needs to have arguments. Arguments can sometimes keep a relationship stronger, but sometimes it gets worse and ruins it. Arguments can be things like not spending enough time for each other, money issues and of course jealous etc. Arguments do put people off, may be you start loving him/her less, but deep inside, you still care about your love, love him/her as much and want to be with him/her. It's just you don't know yet and confused. Do not make your decision so quick, you need to calm yourself down and don't get more angry, because if you do, you will just break up with your love and will regret the rest of your life. Ask for space if you need, just don't take things so quickly. A mature relationship is, to sort things out together, understand each other and work things out together. If it only takes you one second, one day or two days to make your decision, and then break up, your next relationship will just be the same.
It's all for now. Obviously I cannot write so much details because it will take time ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋIf you want to ask anything, please feel free ^^
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