Feelings

Everything we do, we have a purpose and feeling to do it. For example, when you go out shopping, you see a shirt that you like. Like is the feeling that make you want to buy it, and the purpose is you are going to wear it. It's the same as when it comes to love and relationship. Before you love someone, you like the person, before you start a relationship, you have feelings for the person. This is all about feelings. Feelings get stronger by spending time with the person and things that they do for you. They make you smile, make you happy, make you feel special and so on. But how do you judge when your feelings for each other reduce? Huge arguments. This sometimes can cause chaos and sometimes even end the relationship. However, it does not necessary mean that you have no feelings for the person already. It also does not mean that your feelings for the person have lessened. It's just a temporary thing. When people get angry, they can be very aggressive and rush. Occasionally, they break up with their love on the spot, but deep down inside their heart, they still love and care for their love. When you are mad, try to calm yourself down. But if you continue to be mad at your love, or avoid him/her, you will just make things go harder. If you need space, you tell your love. Do not make your decision when you are mad or annoyed. What you don't want is to do things that you may regret.

No feelings for your love anymore? A lot of people find out when they have no feelings for the one they love, they will just leave. I would say very rare people would give it another try. Does it mean that when your feelings for your love has gone, it will never come back again? No, it sure does not. You need to think thoroughly. If the person is nice and has a wonderful personality, even though you don't have your feelings for that person anymore, it's fine, don't worry. Just do not make your mind up instantly because you don't want to regret. If the person is worthy, take your time, step by step. Spend more time with him/her, try to patch things up see if it goes any where. Or again, if you need space, you let him/her know. Space really does help, it helps you to miss the person even more!

I'm telling you now, the majority of people REGRET for not giving it another go. You may not feel regret now or sooner, but later you might feel like oh my god! I shouldn't have done this, shouldn't have done that. When the other person has completely gone off you, it will be too late. Don't think that once you have no feelings, the relationship won't go any where. Talk to the person before it's too late.

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