Introduction done

Just done introduction of my book, so happy ^__^ can't wait to get my book finished and published, although its gonna take long ㅋㅋ
me before night out ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Feelings

Everything we do, we have a purpose and feeling to do it. For example, when you go out shopping, you see a shirt that you like. Like is the feeling that make you want to buy it, and the purpose is you are going to wear it. It's the same as when it comes to love and relationship. Before you love someone, you like the person, before you start a relationship, you have feelings for the person. This is all about feelings. Feelings get stronger by spending time with the person and things that they do for you. They make you smile, make you happy, make you feel special and so on. But how do you judge when your feelings for each other reduce? Huge arguments. This sometimes can cause chaos and sometimes even end the relationship. However, it does not necessary mean that you have no feelings for the person already. It also does not mean that your feelings for the person have lessened. It's just a temporary thing. When people get angry, they can be very aggressive and rush. Occasionally, they break up with their love on the spot, but deep down inside their heart, they still love and care for their love. When you are mad, try to calm yourself down. But if you continue to be mad at your love, or avoid him/her, you will just make things go harder. If you need space, you tell your love. Do not make your decision when you are mad or annoyed. What you don't want is to do things that you may regret.

No feelings for your love anymore? A lot of people find out when they have no feelings for the one they love, they will just leave. I would say very rare people would give it another try. Does it mean that when your feelings for your love has gone, it will never come back again? No, it sure does not. You need to think thoroughly. If the person is nice and has a wonderful personality, even though you don't have your feelings for that person anymore, it's fine, don't worry. Just do not make your mind up instantly because you don't want to regret. If the person is worthy, take your time, step by step. Spend more time with him/her, try to patch things up see if it goes any where. Or again, if you need space, you let him/her know. Space really does help, it helps you to miss the person even more!

I'm telling you now, the majority of people REGRET for not giving it another go. You may not feel regret now or sooner, but later you might feel like oh my god! I shouldn't have done this, shouldn't have done that. When the other person has completely gone off you, it will be too late. Don't think that once you have no feelings, the relationship won't go any where. Talk to the person before it's too late.

Any problem? E-mail me: kim.jae.chun@hotmail.com to cure my boredom ^__^

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I am stunned that I have just posted two and have already received 2 messages from people ^^ since I am free now a day, I hope to receive more messages to cure my boredom because I can't always work on my book 24/7 ㅋㅋㅋ I hope I have helped you guys ^^ thanks for supporting my work!

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Relationship

좋은 아침

What is a relationship?

A relationship simply means that two people are in love with each other and share everything together. It's a great feeling to be involved. You would be happy, whatever you do, you are always happy. You just can't wait to get home to see your love, want to speak to your love and want to spend time with your love. You would talk about short term plans with your love, future and perhaps marriage. When you have already talked about these, usually you can see this person is who you really want to spend with the rest of your life. Though, it may not always happen of course.

Jealousy and arguments. These two play the biggest part in a relationship, but it is normal. Why jealous? This is due to your love flirts with another person. Your love may not have already realised straight away because for him/her, the another person is only his/her friend. By this time, you would get pissed off and moody. May be you would talk about it with your love, may be you won't. It is the best to sort this out as quick as possible. If you don't, your love eventually will realise why you are being moody. Sometimes your love may get pissed off because you did not mention straight away. This is normal. However, he/she needs to understand your feelings. Sometimes you don't want to talk about it is because you don't want her to get upset, you don't want to get into an argument and so on. Basically, you care about her.

In a relationship, it needs to have arguments. Arguments can sometimes keep a relationship stronger, but sometimes it gets worse and ruins it. Arguments can be things like not spending enough time for each other, money issues and of course jealous etc. Arguments do put people off, may be you start loving him/her less, but deep inside, you still care about your love, love him/her as much and want to be with him/her. It's just you don't know yet and confused. Do not make your decision so quick, you need to calm yourself down and don't get more angry, because if you do, you will just break up with your love and will regret the rest of your life. Ask for space if you need, just don't take things so quickly. A mature relationship is, to sort things out together, understand each other and work things out together. If it only takes you one second, one day or two days to make your decision, and then break up, your next relationship will just be the same.

It's all for now. Obviously I cannot write so much details because it will take time ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋIf you want to ask anything, please feel free ^^

First

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I actually have this blog for quite some time now, just haven't had time to write because I have been working on my book. Still, I need time to get used to this as I have no idea how this site works!

As my profile has already mentioned:
Hi, I am 24 from Seoul in South Korea, but currently live in Reading near London. I am here to give advice on your relationship or love. A friend of mine introduced me blog spot, where I can help more people across the world. I have been a "date doctor" (you may say) for the 2 years and have successfully helped a lot of people. I have recently just started writing a book, hopefully it can be published next year or the year after. If you have any question that you would like to share with me privately, you can send me an email at kim.jae.chun@hotmail.com

More about me, I have recently completed Master in Psychology at University of Surrey. I'm fun and outgoing, like partying and playing football. I love music and listen to all kind of music. I'm also a huge fan of Korean drama.

That's all from me today. Will update more tomorrow.

Take it easy.
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